fmstrat

So, anyone forking and setting it up with ntfy.sh?

But not FOSS like LS unfortunately

Try WG Tunnel instead. It will reconnect on loss, but you lose the Tailscale features (no big deal with dynamic DNS)

Yup. I use one of those micro PCs with 4 network ports as a router, and that’s it.

To add to this, don’t buy a server at all, upgrade your desktop! Then use the desktop as a server. Then recycle every desktop for the rest of your life into the new server. Been working for me for decades.